I’ve been having a huge bout of writer’s block for the past few months. No doubt the things happening in my life have been affecting me, but this time it’s like a once-in-a-decade drought kind of thing.
Previously I’d spend a lot of time on the train and those journeys could help me get ideas and even write them down. But now with home-based learning and work-from-home, those journeys have disappeared. I’d try taking walks and I’d get some ideas, but by the time I return home I’d forget them. I did try sitting at cafes to write, but for much of this period dine-in has been closed, and loitering discouraged. So tough luck.
But as I’ve noted before, tastebuds are changing. Few people still want to read ABDL stories, and even less want to read traditional blogs. Most ABDLs prefer visual stuff, which kind of explains the decline of forums like ADISC, as most of the crowd – old and young – have drifted to instagram, tiktok etc.
But nevertheless this blog will continue on for the long run, it is a record of my thoughts. The mission for this blog has been the same – that when the time finally comes for me to explain my ABDL side to my fiancé, this blog would serve as an aid. But, other people still read this blog, and I just don’t know how to value-add to my readers. Views have never really bothered me, but like other creators, I would want my readers to take something away that they would appreciate.
Entertainment? I don’t think so, Youtube and social media are doing fine. Intellectual stimulation? I wish, but I don’t write as much. ABDL literature? Possible, but it would greatly distract from the purpose of this blog. Self-help topics for ABDLs? Yeah, that might work, but again, needs more work put into it.
I’ve always dreamt of telling ABDL stories using more than just words. But one person can’t do it alone, and assembling such a team is very difficult, given that I have very little time for that. I do have detailed plans, but all are on hold. I keep telling myself that now is the time to build upon them, while I am still studying and have energy. And rest assured that I am working on them, I just am unable to make announcements yet.
In short, it is still status quo for now, for now.
-Selv
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Hi Selv. Been following your blog for a while. Always had comments but didn’t get to it.
Not so much into stories but I liked your posts on the diaper reviews. Hope to see them more in the future. Understand that you had worries on finding a partner that understands. But don’t worry too much, mine wasn’t into DL but didn’t mind my kinks. Of course to find someone like minded and understanding will be tough. But having some is better than none.
All the best in your studies and future!
I hope to get around to posting some more reviews, but not anytime soon. As for dating, I’m taking things slowly, and I accepted long ago that I’m unlikely to find a girl who will accept this side of me. Either way I’m prioritising my studies, cos I don’t even know where I’ll be physically in 2022, so dating and diapers are both unknowns to me at the moment. But thanks for your well wishes!